In order to build healthy and content relationships, we are to realise first of all what we personally want, what our deepest needs and wants are, and who and what we would like to have next to ourselves. Would we feel comfortable next to that ideal, too? Would we match that ideal? All these questions are to be answered before we get involved in any relationships.
We are to also learn from the past. To learn from the past means to resolve the past and let it go within the self. The past is revived by making alive the inner feeling and perception regarding this past. How to do it? To let go of the past within the self means that one no longer has any reaction towards any triggers, it means that all the past impressions/ perceptions concerning a specific area are dissolved and one is content within. In the moments of contractions within one is to let go by consciously relaxing the contracting areas in the body, and letting go of the thoughts and stories related to the situation, without linking it with the situations in the past.
In order to enjoy a balanced relationship, we are to balance ourselves first and are to cultivate contentment. If we feel triggered, we are not to point fingers at others but are to turn inwards and work with the reactions and arising emotions and feelings. We are to take an objective look and contemplate on the root causes of those. The key is to recognise past traumatic experiences, victimised states and make an effort to come out of the victimisation and related to it past reactions and patterns of behaviour. A rare Shaktipat Transmission Siddha Param-Para book by Jivanmukti contains a valuable information on this topic.
As for spiritual tools, you may choose to wear a certain special combination of Rudraksha beads in order to assist yourself or your loved ones in conscious work on yourself and your relationships, in order to realise the root causes and create a permanent shift within.
If you feel ready to shift your perspective on and your current relationships or are in need of clear solutions book a consultation or contact us.
A true relationship is a reflection of one's inner balance or imbalance and is based on a level of understanding of self and one's ability to communicate this self to others. It is also about one's ability to practically combine various features/ characteristics of the self with the flow of living and sharing with the others. And it is not always that easy or even practically possible. In order to gain a deeper insight into relationships and the self, we are to drop all the previously gained social stereotypes and concepts, romantic ideas and sexual models of behaviour and see all our current connections, longings and relationships from the equanimous point of view, from the point of view of spiritual wisdom and understanding.
True relationship is not just about love or sexual interaction only, but is also about a spiritual connection, like-mindedness and the sharing of the same vision for life (thoughts and ideas, for instance). Yet, even this might not be enough to have a truly balanced and content relationship for life. A balanced love partnership means having a coherent, mutually-fulfilling link between the spiritual, emotional and sexual aspects within the relationship as well as being able to apply these aspects in a practical way, in every day living, interacting, problem-solving and by equally maintaining and nurturing the long-term life vision.
We are to see the multidimensionality of relationships reflecting the multidimensionality of the self. The deeper we know the self - the clearer we are going to know what we want and how to build harmonious relationships with the other. Yet, the first step is always about the self - honesty to self, inner contentment, maturity and one's ability to communicate and express self clearly and directly to the other.
If one is content, one is able to express self in a non-violent way and is able to create the balance around. On the other hand, if one is very distorted and imbalanced, all these imbalances will manifest in one's relationship with the other. All these distortions and inner unrefined aspects of the self will reflect on the quality of the relationship with the other.
Healing the heart, relationships and boosting immunity Combinations suggested by Jivanmukti:
Choose 15 mukhi Java or 19 muki Java Rudraksha Beads to realise the essence of a true partnership and to get clarity with the vision to attract the right partner and to become the right partner yourself. Promotes healthy and harmonious relationships around. Helps to release negative emotions in the heart and chest area. Promotes the work of thymus gland.
15 Mukhi Java or Nepal Pendant - balances relationships, helps one to open up to attract a suitable partner, balance existing partnership and relationship with oneself, and to resolve past issues of the heart, betrayals, scars. It refines the thymus gland and helps to heal one's victimised perception of reality. It brings contentment in life
Gaurishankar bracelet/pendant for inner and outer balance, spiritual unity and better relationships. Best worn together with the 2-4-6-8-10-12 (Nepal or Java) armlet. A very powerful protective shield for the inner and outer stability, security and relationships.
2 mukhi Java Rosary for unity and happy marriage. Cures gynecological issues, sexual imbalances and abdominal problems. Brings overall contentment and balance.
For the best and most suitable Rudraksha combinations book Rudraksha Consultation & Insight.
"I received the beautiful beads this morning and had a chance to wear them all day. Also, the copper cup which I imagine is used for drinking water. I feel blessed and grateful to have these items. I notice that since I have been able to listen to your videos and now having these items, I feel a new sense of life in me. It's a beautiful thing. What I have noticed today is my mind being very quiet and focused. Also, lots of tingling sensations especially a light, warm buzzing that goes up my back and over my head. There has been a lot of sensations in my head lately. I have been feeling good and happy. But a happy in a calm way..." - MELANIE, USA