A true relationship is a reflection of one's inner balance or imbalance and is based on a level of understanding of self and one's ability to communicate this self to others. It is also about one's ability to practically combine various features/ characteristics of the self with the flow of living and sharing with the others. And it is not always that easy or even practically possible. In order to gain a deeper insight into relationships and the self, we are to drop all the previously gained social stereotypes and concepts, romantic ideas and sexual models of behaviour and see all our current connections, longings and relationships from the equanimous point of view, from the point of view of spiritual wisdom and understanding.
True relationship is not just about love or sexual interaction only, but is also about a spiritual connection, like-mindedness and the sharing of the same vision for life (thoughts and ideas, for instance). Yet, even this might not be enough to have a truly balanced and content relationship for life. A balanced love partnership means having a coherent, mutually-fulfilling link between the spiritual, emotional and sexual aspects within the relationship as well as being able to apply these aspects in a practical way, in every day living, interacting, problem-solving and by equally maintaining and nurturing the long-term life vision.
We are to see the multidimensionality of relationships reflecting the multidimensionality of the self. The deeper we know the self - the clearer we are going to know what we want and how to build harmonious relationships with the other. Yet, the first step is always about the self - honesty to self, inner contentment, maturity and one's ability to communicate and express self clearly and directly to the other.
If one is content, one is able to express self in a non-violent way and is able to create the balance around. On the other hand, if one is very distorted and imbalanced, all these imbalances will manifest in one's relationship with the other. All these distortions and inner unrefined aspects of the self will reflect on the quality of the relationship with the other.
Healing the heart, relationships and boosting immunity Combinations suggested by Jivanmukti:
Choose 15 mukhi Java or 19 muki Java Rudraksha Beads to realise the essence of a true partnership and to get clarity with the vision to attract the right partner and to become the right partner yourself. Promotes healthy and harmonious relationships around. Helps to release negative emotions in the heart and chest area. Promotes the work of thymus gland.
15 Mukhi Java or Nepal Pendant - balances relationships, helps one to open up to attract a suitable partner, balance existing partnership and relationship with oneself, and to resolve past issues of the heart, betrayals, scars. It refines the thymus gland and helps to heal one's victimised perception of reality. It brings contentment in life
Gaurishankar bracelet/pendant for inner and outer balance, spiritual unity and better relationships. Best worn together with the 2-4-6-8-10-12 (Nepal or Java) armlet. A very powerful protective shield for the inner and outer stability, security and relationships.
2 mukhi Java Rosary for unity and happy marriage. Cures gynecological issues, sexual imbalances and abdominal problems. Brings overall contentment and balance.
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"I received the beautiful beads this morning and had a chance to wear them all day. Also, the copper cup which I imagine is used for drinking water. I feel blessed and grateful to have these items. I notice that since I have been able to listen to your videos and now having these items, I feel a new sense of life in me. It's a beautiful thing. What I have noticed today is my mind being very quiet and focused. Also, lots of tingling sensations especially a light, warm buzzing that goes up my back and over my head. There has been a lot of sensations in my head lately. I have been feeling good and happy. But a happy in a calm way..." - MELANIE, USA